I'm sorry you let your dispute with my friend to turn you against me as well. I'm also sorry you dislike people older than you. That was why I used to hesitate telling friends. For a long time now I've told everyone. I find it interesting that very few care and I realize I don't need those that do. If everyone on your list has to be young and eligible, I guess that's your problem. Also if you have it in you to be cruel to a person with cancer I guess that reflects what kind of person you are. Some day you will face hard challenges in life. I hope by then you have found within you the seed of kindness and true friendship.
If I missed something or you are willing to apologize I would hapily add you again.